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Another single dad seeking advice…

Because you, readers, are incredibly helpful and supportive, more single parents have been writing in to ask for advice.
Here’s Joseph, the divorced dad of three children. He finalized his divorce more than two years ago and sounds like a devoted dad.
Joseph recently fell for a single mom of two kids, who “went through a [...]

Will you be watching “Must Love Kids” tomorrow night?

Tomorrow (Tuesday, July 15), TLC is premiering its new reality show, “Must Love Kids,” in which “three strong and optimistic single moms meet their suitors for the first time and decide whom they would like to potentially date.”
Watch the trailer here:

I’ve got to give it to TLC for the clever name, “Must Love Kids.” But [...]

Inspired by One-Woman Show

One-Woman Show calls it “AFGO (Another F–g Growth Opportunity).”

If you read our blogs, then you know that these lovely opportunities often come to us in the form of relationships.
This spring, One-Woman Show took “that FGO and wrangled it into a mixture of potting soil and deck stain.” In the end, she explains, “I at least [...]

Condom winners! T-shirt slogans? Let’s hear ‘em!

Recently, I asked you to share your favorite kind of condom — and why.
Thanks to ONE Condoms, here are the three lucky winners:
Oh-so-honest “TheMatt” wins the 12-pack of Glowing Pleasures, “one to light the way.” His fav? Contempo Exotica Snugger Fit. (His last words were: “Good Gods, I can’t believe I’m saying this in a [...]

Christie Brinkley: How much should the kids know?

Update: Christie Brinkley and Peter Cook  have reached a settlement. According to recent AP news, She’ll “give Cook $2.1 million but keep 18 properties in the Hamptons that were at dispute. Cook will get parenting time with the children, under an agreement mutually satisfactory to both.”
No matter which way you turn, it’s hard to ignore [...]

Condom giveaway: tell us about your fav condom

Who knew that my post, “Do you always use a condom?“, would be one of the most popular ever? I’d like to thank all of you for your oh-so-honest thoughts on this uh, touchy, issue.
Andrea says that since her divorce, she has always asked men to play it safe, and they have: “Seriously? Asking you [...]

Is the man you’re dating a mirror of you?

Wendy Merrill, author of the new memoir, Falling into Manholes, says that he is.
I know Wendy in person and she’s just as hot, genuine, and honest in person as she is in her book. No, she’s not a single mom. Yes, she is so open and revealing about life and love — that I had [...]

Blog winners, Bridget Moynahan on dating as a single mom, and more!

Congrats!
The winner of the Babeland Bath Fizzies — “In what ways does motherhood make us better lovers?” — is Avigail. This single mama said that after getting divorced and turning 30, “something snapped.”
“I wanted to become a sexy mama—a mother who was not afraid to be a strong woman with healthy sexy values. I [...]

Accidentally on Purpose: A must-read about one woman’s one-night stand “and the loving best mistake I ever made”

Today, one of the most open, candid, painful memoirs comes out: Accidentally on Purpose: A One-Night Stand, My Unplanned Parenthood, and Loving the Best Mistake I Ever Made.
I stayed up way past my bedtime to read this book, about 39-year-old movie critic Mary Pols, who knew she wanted to have a baby. But never—not [...]

How has your sex life changed since having a kid?

It’s the final week of Babeland’s Sexy Mama event, and this week’s theme is Reinventing Sex: How has your sex life changed since having a kid? (or, kids!)
A year into single motherhood, for the first time in my life, I wanted to custom-order a night of casual (but safe) sex. I’d never thought [...]

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