For as long as I remember I’ve honored two men on Father’s Day: my dad and my step-dad. Well, all that changed this weekend.
As soon as Chris opened his eyes in the morning, I pushed a present into his lap. First, I gave him a silly card with a photo of a guy fixing a sink that said, “To my favorite Fix It Guy.” And then, under the card, he found a men’s shirt-and-shorts set for practicing yoga — which he has started to do for the first time in his life.
But the card or the yoga outfit didn’t truly show what I wanted to thank him for:
Being a friend who listens;
Turning into a math mentor when necessary;
Telling stories that make everyone laugh;
Unleashing his inner goofball;
Staying present when life gets challenging;
Passing along his great taste in music and movies;
Cooking three-course meals for dinner;
Letting go of judgment;
Being such a boy;
Wrapping his arms around our daughter when she needs a hug;
Carrying the heavy load, when needed…
Believe me, it isn’t easy. We sometimes disagree about the “right” way to parent. We can get so impatient — and oversensitive. Still, every day, I’m grateful that he has stepped into his role as a Dad with such an open heart, and the desire to be here with so much love.
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That’s a great tribute, Rachel!
I just came across your blog and found your words to be so authentic and beautiful. Your words are filled with gratitude and love and they made me smile so I figured I’d let you know.
My bf got a card, too. He’s more of a dad to my son than the ex ever was or will be, and his ability and willingness to take on this role makes me a better mom, so I am thankful.
There is not much sexier than being a good father.
I love this: “Wrapping his arms around our daughter when she needs a hug”
So happy that M has a great step-dad!
Oh girl, I love this post. I love the beautiful family you have. I remember how he read vows to her at your wedding. This post makes me want to cry like I did that day!
So glad to see he’s a great hubby AND daddy.
xxoo
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That is very nice! So glad you have him in your life.
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@Hilary Jacobs Trout: I could not have said it better.
@Rachel: This post is extremely heart warming and encouraging!
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