Our wedding countdown is on. In less than two weeks, we’ll be surrounded by family and friends under oak trees, as our insightful mutual friend, Ronnie — the one who tried to set us up years ago – officially marries us.
Last night, I was re-reading an email from Ronnie, dated two weeks after I’d met my guy at her book launch party. She was responding to my gushing confession. I really liked her cute friend! She had written back:
I just want you to know that I’m 100 percent for this relationship working out, because you both are extraordinary people and deserve each other.
I’m so grateful to her. Heck, I am feeling grateful to everyone right now: my family, my friends, all of you. I’m so thankful to my future in-laws for letting us throw this love fest in their backyard… with more than 100 adults and 25 (!) kids. It seems like a long time ago when I wrote on this blog about my childhood friend who invited me — but not my daughter — to her wedding. I threw a small tantrum back then, but I now see why some folks do go for kid-free weddings.
Well, our wedding will be kid-plenty. In true kid-fashion, we’re going for cupcakes over a traditional wedding cake. And in addition to the home-brewed beer (one of which we are calling “Matrimony IPA”), there’s going to be an alcohol-free slushy machine.
In the meantime, I’ve tried to steal away (imagine five minutes in between taking a shower and packing a school lunch this morning) to finish my vows. We’ve decided not to share our vows with each other — well, until it’s time.
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I get all teary-eyed (in a good way) when I read your posts. It’s just so wonderful hearing about a fellow single-mom who’s found her partner. Gives me hope. Cupcakes and kids are the bestest…have a beautiful wedding.
Thanks Sharon! I sometimes can’t believe it…
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I’m soooo excited for you and your daughter.
And yes, written vows will leave everyone, including the bride and groom, in tears!
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I get re-married to my first love in one month and one day! I’m getting a little nervous, but so excited. Our wedding will be very kid-centric as well, and I think that’s awesome. We’re not writing our own vows, but I have chosen special music to walk down the aisle (the theme to Princess Bride–our favorite movie) and we’re dancing to a special song (I’ll Catch You) but that’s about all of the traditional we’ll be doing. I think you’re making it a “family” wedding versus couple wedding–and I think it helps everyone feel included and it makes it special. I’ll be thinking of you–sending extremely happy vibes your way!
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Woo eee @Soccer Mom! I can’t wait to hear about your wedding!
.-= Single Mom Seeking´s last blog ..Cupcakes- vows- and all you need is love =-.
I’m so happy for you, Rachel (and Mae)! This is truly an exciting time in your life and you deserve every happiness. And good weather for an outdoor wedding, but then again your in CA, so hopefully that won’t be a problem. Please do post a photo or 2 after the celebration!
oops – “you’re” in CA, not “your”. Sorry, can’t help but correct myself
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I am so happy for you and your family. I’m sure it will be a beautiful ceremony.
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Congratulations! We are so happy for you guys!
Sending a big, huge mazel tov your way. You deserve all the happiness in the world and I’m glad you have found love. Wishing you all the very best. (You make me believe that it can happen for me, too!!)
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My six year-old daughter has already told me that she wants to have cupcakes at her wedding. Certainly not ready for that, but… Anyway mazal tov on the upcoming festivities.
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All I can think is you should have a porter instead of IPA. Big, malty and a little sweet instead of bitter.
I think home brew is a really cool idea. You probably feel extra pressure because you’re a writer. I know I would but that’s how you know it will be great. I hope your wedding is a beautiful start to an incredible new chapter in your life.
It is always good to hear great stories of new progresses in peoples life.
I am so happy for you! I have enjoyed reading about your relationship and everything leading up to the actual wedding day. I can’t wait for details about your special day.
He really is a lucky guy.
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Very exciting! Always good to hear about single moms really finding great guys. Best wishes!
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Exciting! So happy for you 3! This summer I went to a wedding on a lake with tons of kids and a total of 100 guests and they too had cupcakes instead of a wedding cake and they were delish. Can’t wait to hear all about the wedding and maybe see a few pictures. The best of happiness to you!