Comments on: Ground, wrong

By: Nappy Kitchen

Nappy Kitchen — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 02:59:41 +0000

I lived SEVERAL years of my life that way. I was striving to be perfect. It was a very sad and stressful existence. What I have learned in recent years is to laugh at my mistakes. My children help me to remember to keep my inner kid alive, thriving, and well!
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By: Penny

Penny — Sat, 31 Jul 2010 14:00:32 +0000

I do this sooooo much . . .especially after becoming a mom, then a single mom. All of the ramifications of divorce and the heaviness of the decisions we make so greatly affect our children it is hard not to . . . but then you hear stories of the reality of some and you can not help but think I have to do better . . .

By: avigail74

avigail74 — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 22:14:12 +0000

I used to…that is until I started traveling to third world country. I’ve learned from my friends in other places that I have absolutely nothing to complain about. If you have a job (or even unemployment paychecks), shelter (with a roof that works), clean environment (toilet too), easy access to food and clean water, access to medical care (it’s illegal for hospitals to turn you away in the U.S.)—you’ve got it all. I’ve learned that life is beautiful and to let go of many unimportant things. It’s easier that way.

By: BigLittleWolf

BigLittleWolf — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 17:23:29 +0000

There is nothing like a dose of harsh reality to put things in perspective. This tale of bravery and everyday dignity reminds us that little things really are little. We should focus on the big things. The essentials.
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By: Michele

Michele — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 19:07:38 +0000

I used to but not anymore. Life is way too short to get caught up in things that won’t even matter a year from now.
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By: Nicki

Nicki — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 11:39:24 +0000

I am learning to let go more. It’s a process. We perfectionists tend to push ourselves too much and expect too much from ourselves. While I excuse flaws and limitations in others, less able to do so with myself. (And this may be why I have been sick so much lately…)
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By: Tiia Jones

Tiia Jones — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 23:06:44 +0000

It seems that the forces in the universe are sending exactly what I need to hear today. It’s easy to focus on the frustrations of what my daughter doesn’t do–the dishes in the sink, the towels on the floor, computer when I think she should be reading–and I focus on that too much. I forget to spend “fun” time with her being silly and enjoying the many, many things about her that I like.

I worry so much that if I DON’T make a big deal about these things, it will have real and lasting consequences on her life. If she doesn’t put her cup in the dishwasher, she will not make it into college. The reality is, letting go is more important (and maybe more difficult) for me right now. Thanks for the reminder.
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By: Kim

Kim — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 18:11:34 +0000

Great post, Rachel. We all need to slow down and smell the roses, and not sweat the small stuff. (Sorry for the cliches, but they are popular for good reason.) One of my mottos is, “No matter how bad it is (or seems), it can always be worse.” Amen!

Today I am letting go of what I *thought* was a great, new relationship. I have no idea what is going on, but no contact for 5 days sends me a strong message to move on. It’s not easy, and I’m getting better at it with every relationship, which kinda makes me sad. But *on* I will move! Hugs to you and your guy – so happy for you!

By: Carrie

Carrie — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 16:16:59 +0000

I used to do this all the time before i left my husband…but then on my mission to me I let it all go.

I recently wrote a blog post on something very similar…you should check it out I think it will hit home with you…and you will know you are on the right track letting those mole hills be mole hills…

http://www.howdoesshedoitmom.com/lesson-1-on-getting-whatever-you-want-in-life/

Love reading your blog…even though I am not a single mommy anymore!
Carrie´s last blog ..Submission for “Project Mom Casting” Reality Show

By: Naked Girl in a Dress

Naked Girl in a Dress — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 13:15:19 +0000

Oh, I suffer from this too. Thank you for the reminder to embrace life and be grateful and positive.

Today I will let go of the huge list of to do’s and celebrate whatever is accomplished in the little time I have. The focus will be kid time today. That is how I would most want to enjoy the day. Everything else can wait.

Great post!
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