The past is only in your mind anyway. Regardless of what you write or photograph. We only have right now… the sweetest of days.
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a question that has puzzled me right now is, “how long does it take to get over a breakup?” it’s been two months since a seven-month relationship ended–well, it was really three good months and four up and down (mostly down). and i’m still cycling back on the pain. when will it end?

i refuse to accept those “rules”–getting over it takes as long as the relationship lasted, or half as long, or twice as long, etc. because i can’t set a deadline on healing. it’s my own pace, my own process. i don’t want to rush it because i want to really heal this time and be ready for the “real thing” sooner than later.
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I used to dream of the day when things would stop changing quite so much and just let us be. I didn’t want any change, good or bad, to happen. But, I have learned to stop taking that step back and looking at our life in that way. I now measure my family in terms of the number of good days we have in a week. I deal with legal issues and ex issues as they arise, but don’t take that step back to see where we stand in the big picture. If I focus on having more good days than bad, it gives me a clear measurement and a smaller amount to fix at one time.

While he was doing all that, I got divorced, changed jobs, dated, had boyfriends, spent many nights and weekends alone, cried and laughed, read great books, saw wonderful musicians perform, met new friends (like you!) … a wealth of experiences.

If you must measure life, it’s in increments that keep adding up to the great big, uh, souffle, in the end.

And in the end, the real end, when we’re on our death beds, we only really care about how much we loved and were loved.

So, we have to keep adding that into the mix …
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