So, LG recently called me and started out with this:
“I just wanted to call you because I’m feeling emotional.”
Me: “Is everything okay?”
Him: “Yeah, everything’s fine. I’m just sitting here at my computer, looking at all the photos I’ve taken this year. I’m blown away by how much we’ve done together, how much fun we’ve had, and how happy we are–”
Sometimes, I can’t believe it, either.
I really believe in an us, perhaps for the first time in my life. February will mark one year since we met. Don’t get me wrong: it’s not all sweet cotton candy around here. I’m not a piece of cake, and we definitely have our share of challenges.
But if you’re new on the dating scene as a single parent, I want to tell you this: Love is possible. Really.
Take that from a woman who was never very good at this pairing-off thing. Pre-child, I’d ignored red flags and often confused lust with love. When I think back to those first years of dating as a single mom, I’ll never forget how hopeless I felt sometimes.
For starters, I didn’t know even know how to meet men. Sure, I saw single guys in the grocery aisles, but I was always more focused on picking up organic almond butter. But if single parenthood does anything for your dating life, it’s this: you get stronger and smarter every day.
Because all those little things I used to overlook? (Like the men who smoked, or the ones who said they were recently “separated”?). Enough.
If you’re a single parent who has never commented here, please come out of your lurking. I’d love to hear from you.
And if you’re a single parent who’s dating again — or thinking about it — I want to hear from you, too.
And the winner of The Fashionista contest, chosen by Random.org? Congrats to Avigail!
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