Comments on: Safe sex http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/ Remarried and Remodeling Mon, 21 May 2012 03:42:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: bad mummy http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-11189 bad mummy Sun, 31 May 2009 01:49:40 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-11189 Rachel, thought you'd appreciate this article: http://www.healthzone.ca/health/article/640831 <abbr><em><em>bad mummy´s last blog post...<a href="http://badmummynocookie.wordpress.com/2009/05/29/grace-in-small-things-15/" rel="nofollow">Grace in Small Things</a></em></abbr></em> Rachel, thought you’d appreciate this article: http://www.healthzone.ca/health/article/640831

bad mummy´s last blog post…Grace in Small Things

]]> By: NappyKitchen http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-11087 NappyKitchen Mon, 25 May 2009 17:17:28 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-11087 Wow! Such honesty and courage in this post! Janet said: "If you send me some free condoms, do you think the stars will align and I’ll find someone to use them with?" Hahahahahaha. Agreed! I've been on a long abstinence kick, but sheesh is it getting boring! BTW, this is a very informative site. http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/Cat7.html <abbr><em><em>NappyKitchen´s last blog post...<a href="http://www.nappykitchen.com/blog/2009/05/let-me-direct-your-attention/" rel="nofollow">Let me Direct your Attention</a></em></abbr></em> Wow! Such honesty and courage in this post!

Janet said: “If you send me some free condoms, do you think the stars will align and I’ll find someone to use them with?”

Hahahahahaha. Agreed! I’ve been on a long abstinence kick, but sheesh is it getting boring!

BTW, this is a very informative site.

http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/Cat7.html

NappyKitchen´s last blog post…Let me Direct your Attention

]]> By: Gabi http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-11029 Gabi Tue, 19 May 2009 18:32:55 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-11029 Oh yes....and just so ya know! I have to agree about the Vasectomy thing too!!! OMG! Nothing sexier on a man then NO SPERM!!! Gabi (aka Fertile Myrtle) Oh yes….and just so ya know! I have to agree about the Vasectomy thing too!!! OMG! Nothing sexier on a man then NO SPERM!!!

Gabi (aka Fertile Myrtle)

]]> By: gabi http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-11028 gabi Tue, 19 May 2009 18:31:42 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-11028 OMG!! This convo was really great to read. I am one of those idiots who has not always used a condom...in my defense...I married young and have had VERY few partners. Once my ex started cheating I got tested....and tested again 6 months later. Then I decided that I love sex...plain and simple and I just needed to get back on the horse and use condoms this time....PERIOD! I will not be having sex without a condom...but I have to say I have NEVER bought condoms. Never really even considered it...not sure why not. I guess I just figured if he didn't have one...too bad so sad! I'm a dork about it I guess....wow! Guess I should really get back up on the times and get a stash huh? OMG!! This convo was really great to read. I am one of those idiots who has not always used a condom…in my defense…I married young and have had VERY few partners. Once my ex started cheating I got tested….and tested again 6 months later. Then I decided that I love sex…plain and simple and I just needed to get back on the horse and use condoms this time….PERIOD! I will not be having sex without a condom…but I have to say I have NEVER bought condoms. Never really even considered it…not sure why not. I guess I just figured if he didn’t have one…too bad so sad! I’m a dork about it I guess….wow! Guess I should really get back up on the times and get a stash huh?

]]> By: Sarah http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-11018 Sarah Mon, 18 May 2009 23:14:55 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-11018 Oh, you are so hot! Hey - I feel shy in the drug store when I'm buying makeup and lotion and office supplies - everything feels so personal when there's someone behind you in line. I go shopping mainly to read the magazines, and get frustrated if there isn't a long line to wait in so I can do it without feeling TOO embarrassed, but usually end up reading off to the side (way off to the side) and feeling humiliated every time someone asks me if I'm "in line." I'm the kind of woman, though, who likes to wave things like condoms around - sort of a chip-on-my-shoulder feminist thing - if I'm in line for real. I guess embarrassment is a sort of a thrill. Go figure. Thanks for the boyfriend/blog advice - that's actually really, really huge. I remember hearing Taylor Swift talk about putting her men into her songs and saying that's just the way it was - and if they were stupid enough to treat her badly - they'd know it would show up in a #1 tune...thanks, Sarah Oh, you are so hot! Hey – I feel shy in the drug store when I’m buying makeup and lotion and office supplies – everything feels so personal when there’s someone behind you in line. I go shopping mainly to read the magazines, and get frustrated if there isn’t a long line to wait in so I can do it without feeling TOO embarrassed, but usually end up reading off to the side (way off to the side) and feeling humiliated every time someone asks me if I’m “in line.” I’m the kind of woman, though, who likes to wave things like condoms around – sort of a chip-on-my-shoulder feminist thing – if I’m in line for real. I guess embarrassment is a sort of a thrill. Go figure. Thanks for the boyfriend/blog advice – that’s actually really, really huge. I remember hearing Taylor Swift talk about putting her men into her songs and saying that’s just the way it was – and if they were stupid enough to treat her badly – they’d know it would show up in a #1 tune…thanks, Sarah

]]> By: singlemomseeking http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-10986 singlemomseeking Sun, 17 May 2009 04:43:57 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-10986 Walt: 15 minutes? No pain? Seriously? Wow. Dare I point out that ONLY women have accepted the free condom offer? Interesting. They're going out on Monday.... Walt: 15 minutes? No pain? Seriously? Wow.

Dare I point out that ONLY women have accepted the free condom offer? Interesting.

They’re going out on Monday….

]]> By: walt http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-10985 walt Sun, 17 May 2009 04:29:38 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-10985 I really don't get the negativity expressed by a lot of guys about a vasectomy, including apparently a few who have commented here. This takes 15 minutes, no pain, and zero risk of interference with sexual function. If you know you're done having kids, why is not a no-brainer? I really don’t get the negativity expressed by a lot of guys about a vasectomy, including apparently a few who have commented here. This takes 15 minutes, no pain, and zero risk of interference with sexual function. If you know you’re done having kids, why is not a no-brainer?

]]> By: Divorced Lifestyle http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-2/#comment-10957 Divorced Lifestyle Thu, 14 May 2009 23:26:15 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-10957 Mine expired last month too! Would love some fresh condoms in the hopes of actually using them! <abbr><em><em>Divorced Lifestyle´s last blog post...<a href="http://oceankarma.wordpress.com/2009/05/11/verizon-discount/" rel="nofollow">Verizon Discount</a></em></abbr></em> Mine expired last month too! Would love some fresh condoms in the hopes of actually using them!

Divorced Lifestyle´s last blog post…Verizon Discount

]]> By: ruth http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-10955 ruth Thu, 14 May 2009 13:56:40 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-10955 woohoo free condoms sign me up LOL. And I also have a tip for buying them, now that I know which ones I want its a little easier to go to that aisle and grab them. Then I use the little miracle of the self-checkout (yes I buy them at a grocery store just for that option) For me its harder to get past the cashier than into the aisle, which usually has feminine supplies etc in it also. woohoo free condoms sign me up LOL. And I also have a tip for buying them, now that I know which ones I want its a little easier to go to that aisle and grab them. Then I use the little miracle of the self-checkout (yes I buy them at a grocery store just for that option) For me its harder to get past the cashier than into the aisle, which usually has feminine supplies etc in it also.

]]> By: Rebecca http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2009/05/safe-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-10953 Rebecca Thu, 14 May 2009 01:37:25 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=4783#comment-10953 I've been separated 2 years, about to get divorced next week, but the only person I've had sex with is my almost-ex. In the beginning, I was slack about using condoms with him (we would go through stages every 5-6 months where we'd have sex a few times, then be done with each other). BUT, at the point when I knew he was sleeping with someone else, we started the condoms, which in itself was weird. About 6 months ago in hopes that eventually I would have sex with someone other than him, I did buy some to have just in case the opportunity arose unexpectedly. They're in my wallet, so I always have them, but it will be a very new experience to have to consider STD's. Live and learn . . . hopefully one of these days soon! By the way, it's been a long time since sex with the ex and I'm pretty I don't want any more! I’ve been separated 2 years, about to get divorced next week, but the only person I’ve had sex with is my almost-ex. In the beginning, I was slack about using condoms with him (we would go through stages every 5-6 months where we’d have sex a few times, then be done with each other). BUT, at the point when I knew he was sleeping with someone else, we started the condoms, which in itself was weird. About 6 months ago in hopes that eventually I would have sex with someone other than him, I did buy some to have just in case the opportunity arose unexpectedly. They’re in my wallet, so I always have them, but it will be a very new experience to have to consider STD’s. Live and learn . . . hopefully one of these days soon! By the way, it’s been a long time since sex with the ex and I’m pretty I don’t want any more!

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