Neither of the most recent men I’ve met on JDate — “The Leading Jewish Singles Network” — were Jews.
One man told me the truth in our first email, which I appreciated.
The other man waited half an hour into our coffee date to smile coyly and say, “I should tell you know that I’m not Jewish.”
The percentage of JDate’s 650,000 members identifying themselves as religiously “unaffiliated” is now 13% and rising, according to a feature in Nerve.com. JDate has even added the option of designating oneself “Willing to convert.”
I’d love to know what you think:
If non-Jews are posting their profiles on a Jewish dating site, are they are misleading everyone?
Seriously, how far can you stretch it online?
Both of these men explained to me they had many Jewish friends, who’d persuaded them to give JDate a try. (Or, maybe they think that Jewish women are hot in bed?)
Technically, I’m only a half-Jew anyway.
If an observant man ever contacted me — the kind of guy who goes observes the Sabbath — I would tell him the truth up front. (This hasn’t happened to me. I don’t think Conservative Jewish guys go after single moms, unless it’s for… oh, never mind.)
I like JDate because the majority of the guys I’ve met are educated, intelligent, well-read, and family-oriented.
Being Jewish is not a deal breaker for me.
But being honest and upfront — from the start — is crucial. Don’t you agree?
Photo of the Star of David, a symbol of Jewish identity
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