Comments on: Hot single dad is landing! http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/ Remarried and Remodeling Wed, 08 Feb 2012 06:21:46 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Guess who’s coming to visit for the New Year? | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7986 Guess who’s coming to visit for the New Year? | Single Mom Seeking... Sun, 28 Dec 2008 00:29:54 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7986 [...] most recent visitor was RJ, founder of SingleDad.com. As fate would have it, we even made a video to try to answer one of this “mystery single [...] [...] most recent visitor was RJ, founder of SingleDad.com. As fate would have it, we even made a video to try to answer one of this “mystery single [...]

]]> By: David http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7694 David Tue, 09 Dec 2008 21:40:23 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7694 First I'd like to say that I always wanted children. I had good parents but I always thought I could do better with my own children and inspire them and motivate them rather than heap guilt on them for failing to meet my expectations. Having said that I should also mention that I have custody of my son and I am very thankful... my ex didn't want children but didn't understand the concept of birth control so my son was born 9 months after we were married. And he is a blast. She ultimately left for a trailer park relationship and I was left being the responsible parent. I was pretty miserable. Here I had thought I wanted this relationship to work out but I was the only one. Then a met a friend. Her name is Angel and she now has three children from three different fathers and the relationships are not functional even now. But she has been kind to me and I adore her children - I even helped her through her last pregnancy. To me, children from other men are not an issue... I can be a good mentor and role model and don't have to be a new daddy. I acknowledge they have other fathers but while I'm around I want to help the kids establish good values, with their mother, that they can carry with them through their lives. This is something I hope to do for Angel and her children. She's just starting to warm up to me by letting me a little bit further into her life. First I’d like to say that I always wanted children. I had good parents but I always thought I could do better with my own children and inspire them and motivate them rather than heap guilt on them for failing to meet my expectations. Having said that I should also mention that I have custody of my son and I am very thankful… my ex didn’t want children but didn’t understand the concept of birth control so my son was born 9 months after we were married. And he is a blast. She ultimately left for a trailer park relationship and I was left being the responsible parent. I was pretty miserable. Here I had thought I wanted this relationship to work out but I was the only one. Then a met a friend. Her name is Angel and she now has three children from three different fathers and the relationships are not functional even now. But she has been kind to me and I adore her children – I even helped her through her last pregnancy. To me, children from other men are not an issue… I can be a good mentor and role model and don’t have to be a new daddy. I acknowledge they have other fathers but while I’m around I want to help the kids establish good values, with their mother, that they can carry with them through their lives. This is something I hope to do for Angel and her children. She’s just starting to warm up to me by letting me a little bit further into her life.

]]> By: Single Dad Seeking advice…. he and his girlfriend have just split up | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7488 Single Dad Seeking advice…. he and his girlfriend have just split up | Single Mom Seeking... Tue, 02 Dec 2008 22:20:06 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7488 [...] If you haven’t watched the video with Single Dad RJ about when to introduce your child to your girlfriend or boyfriend, please watch it below. Let us [...] [...] If you haven’t watched the video with Single Dad RJ about when to introduce your child to your girlfriend or boyfriend, please watch it below. Let us [...]

]]> By: When and how do you introduce your boyfriend — or girlfriend — to your kids? | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7469 When and how do you introduce your boyfriend — or girlfriend — to your kids? | Single Mom Seeking... Mon, 01 Dec 2008 22:15:39 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7469 [...] is what RJ — founder of SingleDad.com — and I discuss on our new video, “How do you introduce your child to your new [...] [...] is what RJ — founder of SingleDad.com — and I discuss on our new video, “How do you introduce your child to your new [...]

]]> By: I became a single mom on Thanksgiving | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7375 I became a single mom on Thanksgiving | Single Mom Seeking... Wed, 26 Nov 2008 06:49:56 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7375 [...] single dad RJ was visiting, we talked about how blessed we are to have our parents nearby. My relationship with my [...] [...] single dad RJ was visiting, we talked about how blessed we are to have our parents nearby. My relationship with my [...]

]]> By: Jon Graves http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7356 Jon Graves Mon, 24 Nov 2008 21:36:31 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7356 Wow, after going through all of these posts (and reading about how adorable RJ is), I want to add my two cents here. First, RJ really is great. He's an amazing father, son and friend. He genuinely loves, and he loves what he's doing. I'm truly honored to share in his vision at SingleDad.com. As for whether or not single Dads like dating single moms or single women, it really depends on the woman. I believe in love above all else, and if I'm able to find another woman who can love me and my sons, it honestly wouldn't matter whether she had children or not. That also goes for women who have never married and have children. I wouldn't be intimidated or judgmental in either case. I'd simply want to make sure that when you look in my eyes and I look in yours, we both know that nothing in this world can pull us apart. If we can share that look, that understanding, does anything else matter? I don't think it would. But you have to come to that place and make that connection, and you have to want it. Just my two cents... Wow, after going through all of these posts (and reading about how adorable RJ is), I want to add my two cents here. First, RJ really is great. He’s an amazing father, son and friend. He genuinely loves, and he loves what he’s doing. I’m truly honored to share in his vision at SingleDad.com.

As for whether or not single Dads like dating single moms or single women, it really depends on the woman. I believe in love above all else, and if I’m able to find another woman who can love me and my sons, it honestly wouldn’t matter whether she had children or not. That also goes for women who have never married and have children. I wouldn’t be intimidated or judgmental in either case. I’d simply want to make sure that when you look in my eyes and I look in yours, we both know that nothing in this world can pull us apart. If we can share that look, that understanding, does anything else matter? I don’t think it would. But you have to come to that place and make that connection, and you have to want it. Just my two cents…

]]> By: Single dad has my back on YouTube | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7280 Single dad has my back on YouTube | Single Mom Seeking... Fri, 21 Nov 2008 07:49:35 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7280 [...] was quite a build up, but at last I got to meet single dad, RJ — founder of SingleDad.com — in the [...] [...] was quite a build up, but at last I got to meet single dad, RJ — founder of SingleDad.com — in the [...]

]]> By: Lance http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7275 Lance Fri, 21 Nov 2008 00:16:56 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7275 Awesome! Please tell me the two of you are going to get it on. I'm putting twenty bucks on it right now... <abbr><em><em>Lance´s last blog post...<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/confession-i-can-only-get-off-with-my-vibrator" rel="nofollow">Confession: I can only get off with my vibrator!</a></em></abbr></em> Awesome! Please tell me the two of you are going to get it on. I’m putting twenty bucks on it right now…

Lance´s last blog post…Confession: I can only get off with my vibrator!

]]> By: Have your kids discovered you online? | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7250 Have your kids discovered you online? | Single Mom Seeking... Thu, 20 Nov 2008 09:08:03 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7250 [...] “hot single dad” — RJ, founder of SingleDad.com — is landing at the airport in just an hour, and I’ve still got a sink full of dirty dishes… [...] [...] “hot single dad” — RJ, founder of SingleDad.com — is landing at the airport in just an hour, and I’ve still got a sink full of dirty dishes… [...]

]]> By: SDMktg http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/11/hot-single-dad-is-landing/comment-page-2/#comment-7247 SDMktg Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:41:13 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=2425#comment-7247 Funny...I think you got mixed up for a second there. I'm actually a single dad in San Diego. I have my kids 4 days a week and they're with their mom the other 3. That's why I asked. Sometimes it's hard to make the commitment (like baking 2 birthday cakes the weekend before a huge trade show) but it's worth it to see how much it means to my twins. It's nice to see other committed dads even if it's only online. Have a great trip. <abbr><em><em>SDMktg´s last blog post...<a href="http://www.tailgatingtimes.com/index.php?/archives/143-Thanksgiving-Treat-or-Nightmare-Turducken.html" rel="nofollow">Thanksgiving Treat or Nightmare? Turducken</a></em></abbr></em> Funny…I think you got mixed up for a second there. I’m actually a single dad in San Diego. I have my kids 4 days a week and they’re with their mom the other 3. That’s why I asked.

Sometimes it’s hard to make the commitment (like baking 2 birthday cakes the weekend before a huge trade show) but it’s worth it to see how much it means to my twins. It’s nice to see other committed dads even if it’s only online. Have a great trip.

SDMktg´s last blog post…Thanksgiving Treat or Nightmare? Turducken

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