Comments on: Will you get married again? http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/ Remarried and Remodeling Wed, 05 Jun 2013 00:20:17 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Will you ever get married again? | Singlemommyhood.com http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-3/#comment-12688 Will you ever get married again? | Singlemommyhood.com Fri, 25 Sep 2009 10:32:18 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-12688 [...] Rachel at Single Mom Seeking asked a while back if any of you think about getting married again, your raw honesty and candor awed [...]

]]> By: Katy http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-3/#comment-8836 Katy Fri, 30 Jan 2009 02:13:18 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-8836 I completely agree with you on everything you said! I got married at 19, separated at 26. My soon-to-be ex and I split a little over a year ago (hard to get the $ together for a divorce) and I’ve dated, and dated, and dated, too.

I understand the whole “I’m never getting married again” thing. Having 2 little girls, I feel especially protective of them and wouldn’t want to put them through another divorce. I look at celebrity couples like Brad & Angelina, or Golie Hawn & Kurt Russell and think…damn…they’ve got it right! I think you can give yourself to someone else completely without all the paperwork.

But, maybe we’re just not ready yet. And that’s ok! I am happy finding out who I am as a woman; something I didn’t ever get to do. And, one day, hopefully you and I will both find a partner who makes us happy. Obviously you’re not ready right now, so don’t stress it, girl :)

]]> By: Badly Hurt http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-8297 Badly Hurt Tue, 13 Jan 2009 11:48:27 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-8297 I do hope so. I loved being married, and I was a great wife! I’ll provided that person stops dating other women after we get married and especially if he don’t sleeping with his own sister. LOL

]]> By: A little hope? | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-8183 A little hope? | Single Mom Seeking... Fri, 09 Jan 2009 07:36:53 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-8183 [...] more. When I fell in love with the Israeli and thought, “This is it.” We were talking marriage and a [...]

]]> By: Top Five Dating Blogs | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-7042 Top Five Dating Blogs | Single Mom Seeking... Thu, 13 Nov 2008 06:54:06 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-7042 [...] not totally true. When I first started dating again as a single mom, I did begin a blog. It was such a weepy, sad rant — my broken heart did all the talking. So, [...]

]]> By: A contest and the winner is… | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-6907 A contest and the winner is… | Single Mom Seeking... Mon, 10 Nov 2008 07:16:18 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-6907 [...] Second clue: I’m not getting married (yet). [...]

]]> By: Susan http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-6904 Susan Sun, 09 Nov 2008 15:43:18 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-6904 I’ve been a single a parent for 7 years. During that time I never wanted to re-marry. My focus was my children, earning my education and securing a job so I would not need a man. Now I have all that….and have been dating a wonderful man for over a year. We are committed to each other and can’t imagine life without him. I am actually thinking of marriage again…but would like to try living together first. I have a 9 and 11 year old, he has a 8 and 10 years old… and we want to do what’s best for them. I realize in todays society committed relationships without the marriage certificate is common…but I don’t live in Hollywood…How would this affects our kids?

]]> By: Honey http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-6821 Honey Mon, 03 Nov 2008 23:28:41 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-6821 I never really thought that I would get married…but now that the BF and I are on that track I’m quite excited, not just to live with him (which I already do) but to intertwine our lives and also to have a wedding that celebrates our committment. I never imagined a wedding before him, and now I’m addicted to “Say Yes to the Dress!”

Honey´s last blog post…Into-Me-See: A Couple’s Guide to Intimacy

]]> By: Leah http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-6666 Leah Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:29:52 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-6666 You know, it’s weird. I was thinking about this very thing this morning. I thought about how wonderful it would be to find a partner again, yet there are so many things about this 24/7 single mama lifestyle that I will be loath to give up. Mainly this amazing sense of independence and freedom. I’ve always cherished independence so highly. Can that be found within the institution of marriage? I don’t know.

Leah´s last blog post…Blogging and Bloglytizing

]]> By: Jessica Ashley (Sassafrass) http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/will-you-get-married-again/comment-page-2/#comment-6654 Jessica Ashley (Sassafrass) Thu, 30 Oct 2008 04:48:38 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=7#comment-6654 I do not know the answer to this. But I hope to find once again the gooby, head over heelsy, confident, crazy, laughy, intellectual, big time love I once had and then released into the universe.

And please God, if marriage is in my future, let it be that and really, really amazing sex.

I do want another child. And I do love the intimacy of one love. But my standards are much higher and so are the stakes. So we shall see.

Jessica Ashley (Sassafrass)´s last blog post…And so the divorce becomes a quest

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