Comments on: When an ex finds your blog http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/ Remarried and Remodeling Mon, 21 May 2012 03:42:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Friendship with the ex: it’s not working | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6998 Friendship with the ex: it’s not working | Single Mom Seeking... Wed, 12 Nov 2008 19:51:38 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6998 [...] I first told you, my dear readers, about the ex who had come back, a few of you warned [...] [...] I first told you, my dear readers, about the ex who had come back, a few of you warned [...]

]]> By: Lost and vulnerable | Single Mom Seeking... http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6669 Lost and vulnerable | Single Mom Seeking... Thu, 30 Oct 2008 18:11:15 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6669 [...] But I can’t hold it inside anymore. This is my blog, isn’t it? [...] [...] But I can’t hold it inside anymore. This is my blog, isn’t it? [...]

]]> By: Elisabeth http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6491 Elisabeth Fri, 24 Oct 2008 03:19:36 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6491 Too funny. I am still laughing. <abbr><em><em>Elisabeth´s last blog post...<a href="http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2008/10/23/im-sorry-to-hear-that/" rel="nofollow">I’m sorry to hear that</a></em></abbr></em> Too funny. I am still laughing.

Elisabeth´s last blog post…I’m sorry to hear that

]]> By: LeAnna in MN http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6429 LeAnna in MN Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:18:10 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6429 Not that I can say anything that anyone else HASN'T, but I think this is really cool. Talk about a tool for REALLY open communication. I'm all about that. And hey, this is better than reality TV. ;-) Not that I can say anything that anyone else HASN’T, but I think this is really cool. Talk about a tool for REALLY open communication. I’m all about that. And hey, this is better than reality TV. ;-)

]]> By: singlemomseeking http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6428 singlemomseeking Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:05:25 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6428 Nope, he's not an addict. But he clearly has some codependent issues (so do I). I'll fill you in. More coming. Nope, he’s not an addict.

But he clearly has some codependent issues (so do I).

I’ll fill you in. More coming.

]]> By: tanasie http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6427 tanasie Wed, 22 Oct 2008 01:47:58 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6427 I'm baffled. I kind of can't believe this. But have you read the book, "The Affair"? I grabbed it off my dad's book case. A couple each kept a diary independent of each other during the course of their relationship. And then it got put together in a he-said-she-said book. Which is kind of what your blogs are. I don't want to be evil, but the first sentence of his blog about his abusive relationship made me say, "oh, God." I know you think he's hot. And that it's cool that he's okay with you writing about him. But .... <abbr><em><em>tanasie´s last blog post...<a href="http://haplyeverafter.com/2008/10/16/this-is-a-crime/" rel="nofollow">This is a crime?</a></em></abbr></em> I’m baffled. I kind of can’t believe this. But have you read the book, “The Affair”? I grabbed it off my dad’s book case. A couple each kept a diary independent of each other during the course of their relationship. And then it got put together in a he-said-she-said book. Which is kind of what your blogs are.

I don’t want to be evil, but the first sentence of his blog about his abusive relationship made me say, “oh, God.”

I know you think he’s hot. And that it’s cool that he’s okay with you writing about him. But ….

tanasie´s last blog post…This is a crime?

]]> By: Viv http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6424 Viv Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:54:51 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6424 P.S. What did happen to the other posts? I'd enjoy going back to them about now. P.S. What did happen to the other posts? I’d enjoy going back to them about now.

]]> By: Viv http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6423 Viv Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:45:38 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6423 Leslie, a blogging man is great, IF he's a sincere blogging man. And I have a question. Did he ever answer whether he was a recovering addict? I don't believe it was covered on his blog so far, and if that's too personal that's understandable, but I find it very curious that we heard one side of him initially, then when he discovered Rachel's blog, he turned into a whole other person. (His comments here haven't impressed me either.) Fun is fine, but it's all rather suspicious to me. Whatever his problems were when this all began undoubtedly didn't go away this quickly, and I'm sorry but I agree with the others who doubt him. And I'm also wondering WHY you indulged him in the first place after all his flaky actions and mixed signals. You can't be that bored with your life! He wanted to make amends, and surely by now he's had the opportunity to do that. I love your blog and look forward to your posts. But this just seems silly. SDMktg summed it up best for me: I'm not comfortable with this two-party business either. Hopefully you will move on to something else soon. Leslie, a blogging man is great, IF he’s a sincere blogging man.

And I have a question. Did he ever answer whether he was a recovering addict? I don’t believe it was covered on his blog so far, and if that’s too personal that’s understandable, but I find it very curious that we heard one side of him initially, then when he discovered Rachel’s blog, he turned into a whole other person. (His comments here haven’t impressed me either.)

Fun is fine, but it’s all rather suspicious to me. Whatever his problems were when this all began undoubtedly didn’t go away this quickly, and I’m sorry but I agree with the others who doubt him. And I’m also wondering WHY you indulged him in the first place after all his flaky actions and mixed signals. You can’t be that bored with your life! He wanted to make amends, and surely by now he’s had the opportunity to do that.

I love your blog and look forward to your posts. But this just seems silly. SDMktg summed it up best for me: I’m not comfortable with this two-party business either. Hopefully you will move on to something else soon.

]]> By: Leslie http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6421 Leslie Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:21:46 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6421 *swoon* there's nothing better than a blogging man :) I'm so excited for this blog-mance and more, I actually squealed outloud. <abbr><em><em>Leslie´s last blog post...<a href="http://fromthegrayfortress.wordpress.com/2008/10/20/hooray/" rel="nofollow">Hooray!</a></em></abbr></em> *swoon* there’s nothing better than a blogging man :)

I’m so excited for this blog-mance and more, I actually squealed outloud.

Leslie´s last blog post…Hooray!

]]> By: SDMktg http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/2008/10/when-an-ex-finds-your-blog/comment-page-2/#comment-6418 SDMktg Tue, 21 Oct 2008 20:02:35 +0000 http://singlemomseeking.com/blog/?p=1965#comment-6418 Rachel, What happened to your blog layout? This is the only post that's showing up. While I have my own opinions I'm not comfortable with both parties on the same post so I'll just say good luck to you both. Looking forward to seeing some other topics. Rachel,
What happened to your blog layout? This is the only post that’s showing up. While I have my own opinions I’m not comfortable with both parties on the same post so I’ll just say good luck to you both. Looking forward to seeing some other topics.

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