Comments on: An ex is calling. Advice?

By: A little hope? | Single Mom Seeking...

A little hope? | Single Mom Seeking... — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 07:35:42 +0000

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Friendship with the ex: it’s not working | Single Mom Seeking... — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 19:52:14 +0000

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By: Beth

Beth — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:08:31 +0000

On the phone, he told me that he’d burned a lot of bridges over the years. He explained that he was on a mission to find people from his past whom he’d hurt.>>

He’s doing the atonement thing and it’s bs….he’ll do the same thing next year and the next and the next….I got a note from a jewish guy that had done about the same thing and thought ” don’t make me make you feel good a hole”

There’s other fish in the sea and his story isn’t going to be worth the shampoo you wash your hair with before you go have coffee…..

By: susan

susan — Tue, 21 Oct 2008 23:29:38 +0000

As one post stated, he could be gay. I mean, you were in a hot tub with a hot guy,drinking wine and he didn’t come onto you? Very strange.

Frankly, I wouldn’t meet him. Blow him off like he did you and then went six years to call or at least several weeks. I dated this guy over the summer fir 2 months who “acted” like he was head over heels for me, then I went on vacation and after I came back he ignored my texts and nothing since.If he calls now I would deal with him cause he didn’t have the decensy to let me know he didn’t want to date anymore. That says a lot about someones character. Take contol and don’t be so accomadating and jump. He’ll think you’re needy and you’d be feeding his ego. Maybe you’re in a serious relationship for all he knows. I wouldn’t trust this guy.

By: When an ex finds your blog | Single Mom Seeking...

When an ex finds your blog | Single Mom Seeking... — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 14:56:44 +0000

[...] obsessing about whether to meet the ex for coffee — and trying to heed your warnings — I [...]

By: tanasie

tanasie — Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:59:58 +0000

Didn’t you say that he want to meet you for coffee on Thursday — aka Yom Kippur, the day of atonement. Maybe he’s reform. (Or maybe he forgot it was Yom Kippur. I rsvp’d yes to some women and journalism event thing when I realized I had to go pray.)

Or maybe he didn’t want to bother to ask God’s forgiveness — he just wanted YOURS.

Maybe.

tanasie’s last blog post…Let’s Play a Game, he said.

By: An ex is calling, Part II | Single Mom Seeking...

An ex is calling, Part II | Single Mom Seeking... — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 21:54:58 +0000

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By: singlemomseeking

singlemomseeking — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 20:39:44 +0000

Tanasie: That’s because it’s Yom Kippur this week! This is the Jewish holiday following The New Year, in which you say sorry and forgive.

That’s amazing that FIVE Jews have connected with you again this week. What good Jews.

I’m going to post an update now about…. the Hot Will-You-Forgive Me Jew.

By: tanasie

tanasie — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 19:02:05 +0000

On a mission to find people from his past whom he hurt? Sounds like he’s in a 12-step group. My parents are in 12-step groups and they circle through the steps and I cannot tell you how much I hate it when they get to the make amends step. Ugh.

Weirdly, I have had like five Jews from Christmas past who I haven’t talked to in AGES e-mail me this week to send a little happy new year note. Maybe it’s because Rosh Hashanah is a time for reflection. Or maybe their mother’s were on their case as to why they can’t find a nice Jewish girl. A guy I went on one date with 1 1/2 years ago e-mailed and another guy I dated three years ago… And another guy I dated many years ago now wants to come visit me. We live across the country now. I asked him why he didn’t want to date when we lived in the same town. He said “Bad Timing.” I’m not sure why the timing is better to him now that I live far away. But maybe the 1,400 mile space between us appeals to him.
It doesn’t sound like you guys had a BAD relationship before, so I would probably meet him for coffee. It’s not like you dated and he cheated on you and stomped on your heart. Then I would tell you to tell him to go away.
Go get coffee and let us know what happens. It’s hard to find a hot, Jewish guy who doesn’t annoy you.
But, I do think he’s in AA or something. So, be careful.

tanasie’s last blog post…Avocado Matzo Balls

By: Asian Single Mom

Asian Single Mom — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 03:11:31 +0000

When exes call mysteriously, it’s because they’re lonely. He is probably interested in you now.

p.s. where are you getting these random stock photos of men?