If you want to date again, what’s holding you back?

by singlemomseeking on January 4, 2008

victorias-secret.jpgSomewhere buried down deeply in every single mom, there’s a woman.

Yesterday, Dr. Leah — author of the best selling The Complete Single Mother: Reassuring Answers to Your Most Challenging Concerns — and I were talking about how many single moms we know who want to date — but don’t.

We wish we could say that, after a couple of months of single motherhood, we both got over it in a snap and started dating again. But it was a long haul. We don’t want you to go through the same.

If you want to date again, what’s holding you back?

Sure, you might have stretch marks (which, by the way, men rarely notice). Your thighs might be a tad wider (which, by the way, men don’t care). Your buns might be a bit bigger (which, by the way, men LOVE).

Do tell: What’s stopping you?

Single mamas, here’s a dare for you today: Unless you’re in the Bay Area — where it’s pouring rain and two highways have just been closed — I dare you to go out during your lunch break (or this weekend) and treat yourself. Buy yourself a pretty, well-fitting bra. Throw in a lacy pair of panties.

Then report back here. Pronto. Okay?

Image from Victoria’s Secret

Related Articles:

Post Footer automatically generated by Add Post Footer Plugin for wordpress.

{ 19 comments… read them below or add one }

Leave a Comment

CommentLuv badge

Previous post:

Next post: